Add "pat" and "stroke" - or another appropriate gesture. Note that we find it relatively fun and natural to use such activities with children from many cultures. Adults may find it awkward until they see the value. The same applies to the Nurturer. As the activities may involve physical contact between the sexes, caution may be needed in some cultures. However, don't assume that to be the case.
If need be, GPs can "almost" pat the Nurturer.
"Look at me, touch them, pat him, stroke me, pat yourself, look at each other."
Note that we are introducing "oneself" and "each other" in this activity.